Starting to get better

Well, I think A is starting to get used to going to "school."

It has been a difficult 4 weeks but, today when I dropped him off, he didn't cry as much. Still had tears in his eyes and screamed, but the action was a little more delayed this morning. 

Since we have been there a month, the lead teacher wanted to sit and discuss A progress over the past few weeks. It was a nice conference and A is doing well, and adjusting. He is having difficulty with outside time (which he loves at home) because it's just so busy and I think that since they mix the age groups it is intimidating (A is the youngest). Also, they do not have many toys outside and they have to fight over who gets a push toy or ball. 

A is beginning to become more comfortable with his peers which of course is leading to more play time and laughing. Although it's mostly parallel play at his age, it is nice to know that he relates better to other kids now. I was in his class room a few days ago and a little boy handed me A blanket which was very nice. In the morning, before A realizes that I will be leaving soon, he greets some of his friends with a touch of the arm, or a pat on the back. 

So, it's great to know that he is doing well. And then... We come to the serious business. It has been such a week of interventions. We are slowly but surely going to ween A off of some of his comfort behaviors. We have pretty much decided that he doesn't need a bottle during the day. He doesn't get one at home during the day, so we are going to stop at school also. 
The big transition, which the lead teacher had me sign an unofficial agreement, is getting rid of the binky during the day except for nap time. GASP. The teacher feels that with redirection he doesn't need to rely on the binky anymore. That he is more comfortable in the classroom and that it's time to start weening! Well, if they are ready for it, I guess I am too. There are 3 other children besides A that will be transitioning. I hope it goes well!

All in all the first month went as expected. A was sick as of day # 4 at day care and he is just starting to recover -- minus the drippy nose and cough that still lingers! He still cries and drop off and runs to me at pick up time. 

Just like with many things to come, we will get through this!