Friday, December 28, 2012

Doctor's offices...

Since Alex began day care in September he has been sick. By his 3rd day in day care his voice became hoarse, by the 4th day he had a runny nose, and of course by day #5 he had a full blown cold.

We have had a struggle with sickness since September. I am sure that we are at the doctor's office every 3 weeks with something new. That doesn't include the "follow up" appointments to make sure that the illness is being treated correctly and that "the virus" is running it's course. 

The latest illness is a repeat of the illness 3 weeks ago. After antibiotics and steroids we really only got 1 week of relieve. Probably no even a week, more like 4 days! So I call the day after the holidays. Yes, my kid would be the one to spike a 102.6 fever on Christmas Eve!! The office was only opened for a half day and was only taking sick calls. The appointment times were not convenient, considering I already was at work. If I knew that I could have gotten in within the next 2 hours, I would not have come to work in the morning. So, instead of making an appointment that day, I decide to ask the receptionist some questions.

This is what gets me when I call the doctor's office....

Every time I call the office I talk to someone different. Which is fine, it is a very large office, maybe 6 or 7 doctors in the practice. I don't expect to talk to the same person every time. Thankfully they have a very organized and friendly staff, with a great electronic system so they get things right!  But, the thing that frustrates me is that every time I talk to someone new, they always have different medical advice. Notice I said, different and not conflicting medical advice (which is a relief). Sometimes I just wish that with a practice so big that they have a website for parents to check out their "tricks of the trade" when handling a sick toddler.

With every phone conversation I learn something new from one of the receptionist! It's so frustrating because of course I try it out, and it works. All the time I'm thinking, I wish the lady 3 weeks ago told me about this remedy!! 

I should start jotting down all of the remedies that I have learned over the past few months of having a sick toddler!! Bet it would really add up if I took the time.

Hopefully, with the breathing treatments my little "A" will be feeling better soon so that we won't be making the frequent stops to the doctor's office!!

Friday, December 21, 2012

Wrapping time...

I started wrapping gifts last night for Christmas! It was pretty annoying -- and I didn't have much patience for it!! Corners were tearing and my scissors were so dull it was just a pain to cut a straight line! 

I remember when I was a kid and the gifts looked so perfectly wrapped. My Mom is much more of a perfectionist than me so that may explain her beautifully wrapped gifts?? I really wanted to be creative with wrapping this year but after I had done a few presents, I really just wanted to be done with it!! 

Looking forward to having the next few days off -- although I'm not not looking forward to rushing all over the place over the next few days!! Hoping I can get some relaxing done this weekend...

Friday, December 14, 2012

Always Worrying...

I understand now why my mom continues to worry about me. I am 35 years old yet she still worries. No matter what the situation is, she worries. I now know that this feeling will never go away...

I am a parent now and have this constant feeling of worry with my son. Every minute of the day, I worry...

This isn't an anxiety issue, this is just this nagging feeling of wanting to always know my child is safe.

I wake up in the middle of the night, worry about my son, go check on him and realize he is ok. I go back to bed. He wakes up in the morning and I worry about getting his diaper changed and worry about staying on schedule to get to school and work on time.

I worry ALL day when I am working and hope that he is safe at day care and having a good day.  We get home from day care and the worry continues... Did he get enough veggies at dinner, is he developing a cough, did I read long enough to him??

Today, parents had a much larger worry, a much deeper worry for their child...

Today parents worried about their children's well being in a sense of.... Is my child still alive!!

The fear and terror that these parents had in Connecticut today is unreal to me. I can't even imagine the thought process of these parents as they learned that there was a shooting at their children's school. Is my child alive? Will I see my child again?? Are they scared?? Are they in a safe place? Did we talk about what happens if they are in danger in school? Is my child alive?? What was running through their heads when they learned of a school shooting??

My heart goes out to the families who lost their children. Lost their children in an environment which is supposed to be safe. A place for learning and play. A place where we would never think was so unsafe that innocent children would be gunned down.

Because of todays' events, I worry for the day my own son goes to school. I am afraid for his future. What can we do to keep our children safe?? These parents in this small, suburban town probably never imagined that their world would be turned upside down and have to face this tragic and senseless act of violence.  It's bad enough we have to worry about when our child reaches the age of parties, peer pressure, and independence. Parents should not have to worry about their young children coloring, cutting, and gluing papers together!!

Praying and thinking of all of these families, school staff, educators, and the community that is suffering through this horrible time. Hugging my own baby tighter tonight and trying to remember that things are not as bad as they may seem at the moment. I'm going to go to fall asleep tonight not dwelling on what I don't have... I'm going to count my blessings and just be thankful that my baby is safe tonight...

How can we make things safer for our children??




Thursday, December 13, 2012

'Tis the season for germs

Over the past 2 weeks we have been fighting infections in our home. 

The first round of infections started on a Monday morning, 2 weeks ago. A begins screaming in his crib which of course startled me! He usually just talks when he wakes up, or tosses his blanket out of his crib when he's ready to get up. I hear the screaming and go running to his crib. He is crying and looks scared. No more than 30 seconds goes by and he is my arms and I'm carrying him to the bedroom door. Then I hear it. Sounds like the "silence reflux" we dealt with so many months ago! I stop in the middle of the room to listen closer. That's when it happened. I get puked on -- all over the front of my shirt and down my leg. A is very scared at this point and is hugging me, arms around neck. Figured we would try and keep the carpets clean by heading to the bathroom. We sat in the bathroom for about 10 mintues until the coast was clear and there was no vomit, for the time being. 

This went on for a few hours. He was sick, would take a sip of pedalyte and just throw it back up. We went through this until the afternoon - after a long nice nap we were feeling a little better... Both of us.

After the vomit session on Monday, we went right into a bad cough into Tuesday. Even though I was scared to have A in my bed in case he puked again, I figured it's the only sure way to get him some rest. So, Monday night we crashed in the same bed so that I could keep an eye on his coughing/breathing, while keeping him propped up. By Tuesday we were in a full coughing fit and luckily Grandma came over to sit with him for a few hours. 

After that doctor's appointment we were prescribed antibiotics for the double ear infection (first ear infection in his life and of course it's a double whammy!) and steriods for the coughing. We noticed a difference after the first dose of steroids. It wasn't until the 3rd and 4th dose that A developed an aversion and as soon as the liquid dropped on his tongue - he puked all over the place. Now of course we were already concerned because A had lost his appetite the day before from the constant throwing up. Now we finally get some food into his stomach and he develops an aversion. We attempted to give the medicine in a cup of milk but A figured it out too soon. So, another call to the doctor and we got dissolvable pills. Which, although A put up a bit of a fight, he didn't barf with every taste!

By Thursday the antibiotics were causing diarrhea which just made things messy... And stinky... 

Back to school the following week and then of course, we go for the 2 week follow up this past Tuesday and everything seems to be ok. Left ear checked out just fine, right ear has some fluid but healing fine. A had a bit of a red throat which was a little concerning because 2 kids in his classroom have strep. 

Then, we start the ferris wheel again... Wednseday I check on A before I leave from work and my husband tells me that he thinks A has pink eye. Another call to the doctor so we can be fit in that same day and we all head to the doctors. Pink eye in one eye - both by the car ride back home. So, we got some more medication from the pharmacy. 

Doctor said to keep an eye out on wheezing since A's chest seems a little crackly. 

Aaaahhh, and they say that it could be until March until the illnesses are over!! 

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

The rest of November

Well, wasn't really able to finish the month of November with the "Today I'm thankful for..."

The holidays came along and went so fast. Then, A was sick for over a week. My blogging time was quite limited. 

So, I guess I could summerize and just say that I was thankful to share the Thanksgiving holiday with family and that we had a fun long weekend together. I am also thankful that A's health is improving and that we made it through that rough week. It was a long week with lots of puking, pooping, and whining. Poor baby was so sick with a double ear infection and bronchial infection. Stomach bug to start everything and then aversion to medications!

What a week! 

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Day 21

Nov 21:  Today I'm thankful for a quiet and calm day at work (so far). Happy that I'm almost caught up on what needs to be done so that I can skip out early and enjoy my holiday weekend!

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Day 20

Nov 20:  Today I'm thankful for a healthy baby boy! A had his 15 month check up and he is growing just as he should be!! He is tall (70th percentile) which is funny to me -- not really sure how he got so tall!! Needs to bulk up with weight (47th percentile), which will be tough since he is becoming a picky eater! He has his father's big head (81st percentile) which I'm hoping just means he is smart! lol....

Monday, November 19, 2012

This Mama just didn't feel like cooking

I feel bad but this weekend we really slacked at cooking meals! We had a healthy breakfast and lunch but dinners were just blah! Take out Friday night, chicken nuggets for my son on Saturday night... Sunday he was feeling a little under the weather so he had some chicken noodle soup! 

Tonight we hope to get back on track. Although, not going to lie... This mama is tired and has no desire to cook! Not only that but I am selling some baby stuff tonight, and need to go grocery shopping after that! It may be another grilled cheese and soup kind of night! 

Day 17, 18, & 19

Nov 17: Today I am thankful for a baby who takes good naps! I was able to get a lot of work done around the house which made me feel much better.

Nov 18: Let's just repeat day # 17. I am so thankful that I have a baby that takes good naps! Was able to catch up on rest since I had a wild and crazy (not really) Saturday night. Also thankful for such beautiful fall weather! A and I were able to play outside and get a good walk in.

Nov 19: Today I'm thankful for take out for lunch! I get so sick of tv dinners every day! This was a nice change.

Friday, November 16, 2012

So behind

Feeling so behind in housework that it is just giving me anxiety.

No matter how much I get done on the weekends by the end of the day the house is a disaster.

I know why it always turns out this way. Besides the fact that we have absolutely no storage in our home (not one closet is big enough for me even to stretch my arms out in it), but, I have a problem with putting things in their place. I admit it, I get things out and I just don't put it away.

With a toddler it is just becoming so difficult to keep up with things. His toys are easy to clean up because they just get thrown into baskets. But I am just getting so overwhelmed with the amount of housework that needs to be done!

Oh, and why wasn't I ever informed that with a toddler, the kitchen floors need to be swept and sometimes mopped EVERY day! Seriously, how is it that one crushed cheerio (let alone a handful) can create such a mess!!!

Really feeling the need of a couple days off work (with no kid) to get things back in order!!

Day 16

Nov 16: Today I'm thankful for a healthy and happy baby boy. A bring so much joy to our lives and he just keeps us in stitches with his fun personality. Can't imagine life without him, or before him.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Day 15

Nov 15: Today I'm thankful for being able to help people. My career choice has definitely not brought me wealth and glam, but it has allowed me to help people in many different ways. Not sure what it is but this past week I have had some very good sessions with clients. I am thankful that I am able to help them in any way possible. Sometimes it's the little things that count in life.

Baked Ravioli with Spinach

Feeding a toddler can be broken into 2 categories. Foods that he will always eat (i.e. crackers, fruit, and pizza) and foods that they won't eat (i.e. veggies). My 15 month old has learned how to stop chewing, stick his hands in his mouth, and reach in to pull out the food that he doesn't want. After he has picked the food out that he doesn't like (typically a vegeatable), he flings it down on his high chair tray or even more conveniently, the floor!

So, I'm learning how to hide veggies from him. Casseroles are just perfect for this.

Last night I made a really easy dish that had one of his favorite meals, ravioli! He loves ravioli so much we have made up a ravioli dance & song that we do while cooking!

Although the prep time was easy, the cook time was a little long. I'm thinking that the next time I will prep this dish in the morning and leave it in the refrigerator to thaw out while I'm at work. That way I can just pop it in the oven and cut the cook time in half.

I got the recipe from a friend so it's not very detailed with instructions.

(once again the picture is not blog beautiful. But, I just don't have the time to get the fancy camera out and place meal on a dish. I will say that the area with no cheese is the area that I took my son's portion from lol)
INGREDIENTS:

-36 frozen ravioli (I cut recipe in half and used 18 ravioli that came in a pack. Choose the type of frozen ravioli you like. I had ravioli stuffed with chicken and mozerella so that's what I used BUT I think that the regular beef stuffed ravioli would be better!)
-frozen spinach thawed and drained (i'm sick of using a spoon to drain against strainer and then toweling to dry. I just grabbed the spinach queezed by hand lol)
-shredded mozerrella cheese (recipe said 2 cups but I didn't measure)
-spaghetti sauce (I used ragu or prego - whichever was on sale)
 
DIRECTIONS:
 
1. preheat oven to 350
2. spoon a little sauce on bottom of casserole dish
3. place a layer of frozen ravioli over sauce
4. cover ravioli with some spinach (1/2 spinach if you are following directions using 36 ravioli)
5. cover with sauce 
6. cover with mozerrella cheese
7. repeat with another layer of ravioli, spinach, sauce, and cheese
8. COVER with aluminum foil and bake for 50 minutes
 
My son tore it up and didn't even realize he was eating spinach... 
 

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Slow Cooker Cheesy Chicken And Rice

As easy as this recipe was... There was just something missing from it... My husband and I couldn't figure out what it was?? More cheese?? More spices??

Not only was there a missing piece to the recipe but... There was just a little bit too much onion for me! And we LOVE onions in our home!! Maybe scale it down to a "medium" onion instead of an entire "large" one??

All in all we will make this again, and will add that missing ingredient too -- maybe garlic?? I modified the recipe a little bit (in parentheses). Even with the missing ingredient our family completely devoured this dish!

(Sorry for the unattractive picture, it's the best I could do with it almost gone)

Ingredients

  • 4 boneless skinless chicken breasts (mine were still frozen)
  • 1 large onion, chopped (I use Vidalia) (medium would be fine also, or maybe just not as finely chopped as we made it)
  • 1 -8 ounce box Zatarain's Yellow Rice Mix, cooked according to directions (I just used white minute rice since I didn't have Yellow available)
  • 1 cup cheddar cheese
  • 1 - 10.5 ounce can cream of chicken soup (regular or fat free)
  • 1 -15 ounce can whole kernel corn, drained (I'm all about hiding veggies from my 15 month old so I also added peas and a few left over green beans)

Instructions

1.  Spray the bottom of the crock pot for easy clean up.
2.  Place the chicken in the bottom of the crock pot.
3.  Scatter the onion over the top of the chicken.
4.  Spoon (or should I say plop) the cream of chicken soup over chicken and onions. Doesn't have to be even because eventually it will melt down and cover everything.
5.  Cover and cook on low 7-8 hours or on high 3-4 hours.
6.  A few minutes before serving, add in the COOKED rice, corn, and cheese (and anything else you may want to add).
7.  Stir to combine & serve hot.

(Like I said, I think it needed a little something else... Maybe garlic?? or pepper?? I'm not sure!! But I will get it right the next time)

Day 10, 11, 12, 13, & 14

Well, what can I say... I'm behind on being thankful.

Nov 10: Thankful for the gift of music and a sense of community! Alex and I have been participating in Kindermusik classes since June and we have really enjoyed ourselves. Not only do we get some bonding time, we have the chance to get together with others and engage in an organized activity.  So thankful for learning new things, while having lots of fun!

Nov 11: Thankful that I don't have to go to work tomorrow!! But of course on a serious note, I'm so very thankful for all of the men and women who have given their lives and service to our country. Without their hard work and sacrifice, we would not enjoy our daily freedoms & privilages.

Nov 12: Truth be told, I had every intention of taking A to day care today so that I could have a nice and quiet day to myself! Today I am thankful that it was raining and I didn't feel like traveling in the rain to take A to day care. We had such a fun day playing and reading together! I am thankful that I have such a caring, affectionate, kind, and funny little boy! Also happy that he allowed me to get some work done in the house - even though it looks like nothing was touched!!

Nov 13: Today I'm thankful for having friends to get together with. My life in Delaware was much different than in Ohio. Here I don't have the long standing (i.e. decade) close friendships that I had in Delaware. With time I hope to have the close relationships in Ohio that I did in Delaware - everything in time of course. I'm thankful for the playdate that A and I had today with friends.

Nov 14: Today I'm thankful for my health. Even though I'm not in the best shape, don't eat as many veggies as I should, and have had a persistent cold... I am still able to walk, hear, see, and breath!! I see too often young people struggling with their health. I'm fortunate to be in good health.

Friday, November 9, 2012

Chicken & Spinach Pasta Bake



This was such an easy and good dinner! My 15 month old son LOVED it and it was so nice because it had yummy veggies hidden in it! My husband also liked it, yet he said he would have LOVED it if I used "regular" pasta and not "whole grain" pasta. (Honestly, if he didn't see the empty box on the counter he would have NEVER known it was whole grain!!)

I changed some things around because I didn't have all of the iningredients. There was so much that I was able to freeze it for another week!
 
Chicken & Spinach Pasta Bake
  • 8 oz uncooked rigatoni (used whole grain penne pasta)
  • 1 T olive oil
  • 1 c chopped onion
  • 1 (10 oz) pack frozen spinach, thawed
  • 3 c cubed, cooked chicken breasts
  • 1 (14 oz) can Italian-style diced tomatoes, undrained
  • 1 (8 oz) container Philadelphia chive & onion cream cheese
  • ½ t salt, ½ t pepper
  • 1½ c shredded mozzarella cheese
Prepare rigatoni (or penne) according directions on box.  Spread oil on bottom of 11×7 in baking dish; add the chopped onion in a single layer. 

Bake at 375 for 15 minutes or just until tender. (makes the house smell so good)

Transfer onion to large bowl & set aside. (when the directions say large, they really mean large!)

Drain chopped spinach well, pressing between paper towels.

Stir in rigatoni (penne), spinach, chicken, undrained diced tomatoes, Philadelphia cream cheese, salt & pepper into onion in bowl.  

Spoon mixture into dish & sprinkle evenly with shredded mozzarella cheese. (which I attempted to do but it came out a little uneven... What can I say, This Mama Can't Cook)

Bake covered at 375 for 30 minutes; uncover & bake 15 more minutes or until bubbly.


I tried this recipe and posted about it previously. This time I actually followed the instructions, used the right kind of diced tomatoes & the chive & onion cream cheese. It made all the difference in the world!

Day 9

Today I'm thankful that my little A is ok after his first real fall yesterday evening. As I was chasing him, he slipped on hard wood floor and banged his mouth pretty good. Had a fat upper lip and cried and cried! Luckily he was fine after a little bit.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Day 7 & 8

November 7: Today I was thankful for having a healthy family. A was a little under the weather this morning and I ended up picking him up early from day care. He wasn't his typical active self which was sad to see. Although since he wasn't feeling 100% I was able to sit and cuddle with him on the couch!

November 8: Today I am thankful for having extended family in the area to help out when we need it. A woke up this morning feeling well, but just to be on the safe side, his Grandma came over to watch him. A will definitely enjoy this day with his grandma playing, reading, and just having fun!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Day 6

Today I'm thankful for the right to vote. I'm also thankful that I live in a country that allows me to take part in such an amazing right/privilege.

Monday, November 5, 2012

Day 3 & 4

I realized this weekend that I can't access my Blog on my iphone. Need to set it up, but honestly, it just looks too complicated.

November 3, 2012 I was thankful for a baby who slept in and gave his mom a little extra sleep. Although waking up late meant that we had to rush to get to music class. I am thankful that I have the ability to expose A to different activities. Not only does Kindermusik get A and I out and about socializing, he is also learning so many new skills. It brings me joy to be able to see A learn new things.



November 4, 2012: Thankful for the roof over my head and food in the refrigerator! Caught up on a lot of housework and even though I was dreading it, I was happy to be fortunate to have a home to come to. 

Friday, November 2, 2012

Jumping on the Thankful Wagon... Day 1 & 2

Well, it's November and of course it's the month of being Thankful. This is honestly my favorite month of the year! I'm not sure what it is about November that makes me so happy!! Maybe it's the fresh & crisp fall air? Or that my favorite holiday is Thanksgiving? Or maybe it's the fact that we get an extra hour of sleep! Whatever it is, I look forward to this month!!

Facebook has a 31 Days of Being Thankful, but I post enough on facebook so I thought I would give being Thankful a shot on here. Since I'm late my first Thankful entry will be for 2 days.

November 1, 2012:
Yesterday I was thankful for having had opportunity in life to get me where I am today. I am thankful for having 2 parents who were positive role models in my life and showed me that hard work pays off. I'm thankful that they were able to provide me with me with years of excellent education, the ability to distinguish between wanting and needing, and how to live an honest life. 

November 2, 2012:
Today I'm thankful for it being Friday!! I'm also thankful that I'm starting to feel better and getting some energy back so that I can enjoy the weekend with my baby! 

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Keeping it up...

Started using the menu planner and so far it's working out just fine!

I work on it on Fridays so that it's ready to go for the new week.

One thing I have to take into account is leftovers! With only 2 adults and one toddler, we typically have leftovers. I stopped taking them to work with me for lunch the next day because I figured I would be sick of the dish by the time I had it 3 meals in row.

Also, I am going to start putting some things in the freezer. My husband made a beef stew last week and we had plenty of leftovers. We probably ate it for 2 dinners and a lunch. Needless to say we were tired of it after the 2nd day! So, I just put the leftovers in a Tupperware dish, and put it in the freezer. Mid month I'm sure we will be needing something to eat and it will be so easy to take out and reheat!

I've also found that preparing the meal the night before, or first thing in the morning really helps with saving time.  When cooking isn't your thing, and you don't necessarily enjoy it, any little thing to make it easier is such a joy!!

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Getting organized

It's time to get organized.

With my son in child care, working full time, and having limited time in the evenings.... It's time to get organized.  

I was thrown off last week by an unexpected visitor. Dinner didn't get started in a timely manner which left my child eating eggs and toast for dinner. Not only did my son end up having a quick and easy dinner, I ended up eating a microwavable easy-mac. Not ideal dinner for me. 

So, starting this week, I am going to start planning meals a week in advance!! I get so jealous with those orgainized people who can plan their whole month, but I'm going to take baby steps.

Hopefully by using a meal planner I can save some time, and some money while shopping! I know it's not a big deal but, I'm kind of excited to get started planning!! 

Click on this link to see the meal planner that I intend on using.

http://www.theprojectgirl.com/2009/01/19/menu-planning-form-free-download/ 

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

The intervention

Last week when I dropped A off to day care, his lead teacher stated that she wanted to talk to me. I'm running a little late to work so I'm a little rushed and thinking, "can't this wait?" Well, of course I didn't say anything so the teacher informs me that she has started a list of children in the classroom who use pacifiers. I look down at this piece of orange construction paper with my child and 3 other classmates names written in sharpie marker. As she is making her suggestions I am secretly happy that this is not an official agreement that I am about to sign. Thank goodness for the "contract" on construction paper! Miss J is discussing how using a pacifier during play time limits the children's ability to speak up, play, show their emotions. She also explained that the older kids who do not use a pacifier tend to tease the children with a pacifier by ripping the binky out the mouth and running away with it. The vision of a little boy named P ripping my baby A's binky out of his mouth instantly comes to my mind. As Miss J is sharing her view points and experiences, I'm looking at her nodding my head, agreeing with what she is saying. Yet, the entire time I hear words coming out of her mouth, but am completely distracted thinking to myself, "My baby is not going to be a happy camper if he can't have his binky when he wants it!"

The binky isn't just a comfort for babies, it is a comfort for the parents who know that their child is being soothed and are content.  Why you think there are so many endearing and personal names for the pacifier?? My cousin had a "tay tay." A has a "binky." Some others have a "nuki" or a "paci." For some reason this is just such a personal and difficult "intervention" for me.

As personal as this transition is, it seems to be working out. A is doing just fine without his binky during the day. We even put it away at home until night time.

No let's see how long it takes to get rid of the night time bottle, and one day the blanki!! Oh my, the webs we weave when we are trying to make our children happy!!

Sick baby 1 Tired Mama 0

Well, parents were right... Once baby goes to day care, they will have a runny nose for the first couple of months.

We just fought one cold, and here we are again with another cold. 

When we were out of town A's runny nose seemed to improve, was almost non exisitent.  Now with just 5 days back to school, we are back to being sick.

This cold seemed to happen fast. Started with a few sneezes early yesterday morning.  By the time I got A from day care it was a full blown runny nose! By the evening it was just disgusting. Thought we were ok until at 12 AM on the dot, A is crying in his crib wanting to be held and needing to be suctioned.

We spent the next 5 hours in and out of sleep. To my bed, to the crib, we tried to get as much rest as possible. Although it was a very rough night, the snuggle time was so refreshing. A wanted to be propped and knew it was making him feel better. Boy did I enjoy him lying on my chest with his head nuzzled under my chin...  As tired as I was, and as sick as I was of singing "the ants go marching one by one" to have him fall asleep, I really enjoyed and needed that snuggle time. 

It still amazes me that I carried my "little big boy" in my stomach!!! 

Monday, October 15, 2012

Forgotten Chicken

This recipe was really easy, quick, and yummy!

I didn't have enough time to put it on a low setting so I cooked at 385 for an hour. Chicken was partially thawed. 

INGREDIENTS:
BONELESS SKINLESS CHICKEN BREASTS
*  MINUTE RICE (IN RED BOX)
*  1 PACKAGE OF ONION SOUP MIX
*  1 CAN OF CREAM OF CHICKEN SOUP
*  1 CAN OF CREAM OF CELERY SOUP
*  WATER
 

DIRECTIONS:
Mix together “cream of” soups, 1 can of water, and 2 cups of minute rice (uncooked.)  Pour into a buttered casserole dish. Lay chicken breasts on top of rice mixture and sprinkle onion soup mix on top. Cover with tin foil. Don’t forget that important step!

"Here is where the name Forgotten Chicken comes in.  Once you have it in the casserole dish you can put it in the oven and forget it!  My mom would always put it in on a low temp. (around 250-275) before we left for church and when we got home three hours later it would be ready.  Or you can cook it at 350-375 (depending on your oven) for one to one and a half hours.   It is hard to mess up so if you forget it is in there don’t worry, it is probably still okay! - Darling Doodles author Brianna"

I cooked it on 380-390 for an hour or so...

Please see the Darling Doodles blog post on this recipe to see step by step pictures of recipe!

http://www.darlingdoodlesdesign.com/2012/04/forgotten-chicken.html

Clean your bath toys!!

Like many moms, I am addicted to pinterest!

I am always pinning things knowing deep down that I will NEVER attempt to re-create it.

Well, as I was cleaning the bathroom yesterday I decided that it was time to clean the bath toys. I remembered that I pinned a link to a blog on how to clean those oh so funny bath toys. 

I didn't follow the instructions very well -- I didn't feel like dirtying up measuring cups soooo... I just modified the instructions! 

First I filled up the sink with extremely hot water, then poured vinegar into it. I thought it was enough vinegar when the smell was strong! I let the toys soak for over an hour, every time I passed the sink I would empty and fill the toys through the sucker! 

So, as I was finishing up, I didn't see anything come out but didn't have time to do the bleach portion of the cleaning. So I gathered the toys up and got ready for bath time!

As A was playing in the bathtub I grabbed some of the squeeze toys and sprayed the wall. To my disgust all of this black mold came squirting onto the recently cleaned shower wall!! I had to call for my husband because of course the black mold is dripping down the wall and into A bath water!! My husband comes in and is also disgusted, and just frustrated that we have so many bath toys to begin with!! 

So, long story longer... Check out this link & clean your bath toys regularly!! When I get home from work I plan on doing the bleach portion of the cleaning!!!

http://welovebeingmoms.blogspot.com/2012/07/how-why-to-clean-bath-toys.html

 

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Starting to get better

Well, I think A is starting to get used to going to "school."

It has been a difficult 4 weeks but, today when I dropped him off, he didn't cry as much. Still had tears in his eyes and screamed, but the action was a little more delayed this morning. 

Since we have been there a month, the lead teacher wanted to sit and discuss A progress over the past few weeks. It was a nice conference and A is doing well, and adjusting. He is having difficulty with outside time (which he loves at home) because it's just so busy and I think that since they mix the age groups it is intimidating (A is the youngest). Also, they do not have many toys outside and they have to fight over who gets a push toy or ball. 

A is beginning to become more comfortable with his peers which of course is leading to more play time and laughing. Although it's mostly parallel play at his age, it is nice to know that he relates better to other kids now. I was in his class room a few days ago and a little boy handed me A blanket which was very nice. In the morning, before A realizes that I will be leaving soon, he greets some of his friends with a touch of the arm, or a pat on the back. 

So, it's great to know that he is doing well. And then... We come to the serious business. It has been such a week of interventions. We are slowly but surely going to ween A off of some of his comfort behaviors. We have pretty much decided that he doesn't need a bottle during the day. He doesn't get one at home during the day, so we are going to stop at school also. 
The big transition, which the lead teacher had me sign an unofficial agreement, is getting rid of the binky during the day except for nap time. GASP. The teacher feels that with redirection he doesn't need to rely on the binky anymore. That he is more comfortable in the classroom and that it's time to start weening! Well, if they are ready for it, I guess I am too. There are 3 other children besides A that will be transitioning. I hope it goes well!

All in all the first month went as expected. A was sick as of day # 4 at day care and he is just starting to recover -- minus the drippy nose and cough that still lingers! He still cries and drop off and runs to me at pick up time. 

Just like with many things to come, we will get through this!

Trip to Delaware...

A and I had a wonderful time in Delaware last week!

We left on Wednesday and got there late in the evening. I didn't know how the plane ride would be considering the last time we flew, Alex was not able to walk. The ride started out just fine, we actually had the entire row to ourselves (3 seats). But as time went on, A became restless. I had plenty of snacks, drinks, and toys but... It was tough for him to sit still for so long. It became almost unbearable when he was trying to go to sleep and couldn't get comfortable. He was screaming at this point because he was trying to roll over on his stomach. He threw his pacifier down, and was just hollering. At that moment, I wished I followed other mother's advice and gave him a little benadryl!

A and I were pretty sick with colds when we arrived so the first 2 days we rested, a lot! Since I was on "vacation" and had no housework, laundry, or anything else to do, I decided to nap when Alex napped. I'm not sure if it was because he was sick but he slept so well in Delaware! 

On Friday we had a nice play date with some friends from college and their kids. It's so crazy to think how fast their kids have grown! Then on Saturday we had my friends & family over for a little gathering. It was nice to catch up with everyone, although in those situations I never feel like I get that one on one time with anyone to really catch up! I feel like with entertaining you are always making your way around the room to talk to everyone. It didn't help that A didn't get a nap and ended up clinging to my leg the entire afternoon! 

A was such a character when we were visiting! He had an audience, his grandmother, and he just ate up all of the attention! He was so funny that we couldn't help but laugh! He really enjoyed himself! He had plenty of toys and books to keep him entertained and got to try some different foods - mostly sweets :o(

Sunday was dreary so my plans to go onto UD campus didn't really work out. We went to the mall instead and I was so amazed and shocked at the upscale shopping!! I pretty much think I stared at the purses in the window of Michael Kors for 1 minute until I realized that I was holding up the traffic. The mall was ridiculously busy and it wasn't even Christmas yet.  It kept Alex busy and probably over stimulated!

The trip back home was a little easier (thanks to Benadryl -- which I DO NOT recommend. It really does knock the poor baby out into a heavy sleep -- I did it after suffering from a lot of Mom's guilt before, during, and afterwards. It made for an easier trip home but, it was a little unnerving). A was so excited to see his Dad, after his sedation wore off of course.  

Can't wait to get home sometime soon. Probably won't make it until after the winter - would hate to get stranded with a baby!

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Packing for a toddler

A and I are leaving for a family vacation this week. 

I have traveled by myself with him before but, this time he is walking!! I'm not sure how I am going to be able to keep him still - and on my lap for the hour and a half plane ride! 

Hopefully I will be able to keep him busy with snacks, drinks, and toys/books. We will see.

The hardest thing about taking a trip with a toddler is packing his bag! It is such a sight to see me, his bulky travel system (i.e. stroller/car seat combo), and our over sized luggage. My left hand is pushing the stroller while my right hand is pulling the suitcase!! Talk about a work out and breaking out in a sweat! 

Luckily the weather looks like it will be beautiful for our trip. A went to the doctor to make sure that he was all good to travel. Only took him because we have been struggling with a cold since he started day care. I didn't want him to have a chest or ear infection and then end up being admitted in an out of state hospital (even though the hospital is probably much better where we are going). Now, just to get myself checked out and get some meds so that I can actually enjoy myself.

Hoping the best for this trip!! Can't wait to see family and friends!

Thursday, September 27, 2012

What's for dinner??

Lately I have been just repeating many recipes!

We came across a problem since my 13 month old son started "school." 

I was making dinner for him and then he ended up having the same thing for lunch at his day care.  I finally picked up a menu so the poor kid didn't have to eat the same meal 2 days in a row!

Also, since starting day care I don't get home as early as I used to. Even though there is only about a 15 minute difference, that 15 minutes makes a difference when you are trying to get dinner together.

At this point I am all about the fast and limited # of ingredients that go into a recipe. I have actually had to even rely on the prepackaged foods when we get home later than usual. (Costco has an amazing organic cheese stuffed ravioli that we made this week).

Once I become more organized I plan on getting dinner prepped either the night before or the morning of. That way when I get home all I have to do is pop it in the oven? Also thinking that I could probably come home on my lunch break, start the crock pot, and dinner would be done when we got home! 

Now to start the process of becoming more organized!! 

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

One week down...

Well, we made it through the first week of day care.

It was rough - for both A and myself.

Of course by the 3rd day of "school" his voice was hoarse. By the 4th day he had a runny nose. By day # 5, he just had a full blown cold. It was his first "real" cold so it was rough on both of us. 

It stinks to have a little one and not be able to help them get comfortable. I kept on hearing that vicks vapor rub on the feet was a safe way to make baby feel better. Yet, the vicks box doesn't recommend use under age 2. Thankfully my husband found a vicks vapor plug-in that helped out tremendously!! Safe for children 3 months and older. Combine the plug-in with the humidifier - we were set! Although A wasn't feeling so well, it was nice to be in for the weekend and get stuff done around the house.

Loving the fact that day care offers such a variety of healthy foods! Also loving that Alex is eating and enjoying what is being offered! 

All in all, the first week went well. Luckily this morning when I dropped him off he went right to his teacher with no crying. He looked hesitant and unsure if I was staying or leaving but no falling out or big tears today when I left him. 

By the end of this week maybe the both of us will be stronger and used to our new routine!

 
Was able to make the chicken/potatoes/green beans recipe on Saturday.

Turned out just as I expected and it was so easy to make!! 

I just modified the recipe and didn't add an entire stick of butter -- that just seemed like a lot!! I used half a stick and just a little bit of olive oil. 

It was such an easy meal that I prepped it in the morning when my son was taking his morning nap. I covered it and threw it into the refrigerator until dinner time. Took it out and cooked for an hour on 350!!


So easy. 

Friday, September 14, 2012

The Day Care Bug

My baby has his first "real" cold. 

He has a stuffy and runny nose, sneezing, and just can't breath out of his nose. I feel so bad for him because I know this is just the first of many colds for him.  Thankfully I was warned by other mothers that the first 3 weeks of day care would be like this... Constant runny nose and illness... 

At first when he woke up this morning (an hour before usual) I wasn't sure what to do. Do I call out sick from work to take care of him? Do I get a sitter for the day and keep him out of day care?? Do I just send him to day care since he has no fever?? After discussing with J, we decided to send him to day care and hope he gets through it. So far, so good. He seems to be having a good day!

Hopefully A continues to feel well so that we can really enjoy our weekend! We are supposed to start Kindermusik tomorrow, but won't be able to go if we have a runny icky nose  :o(

Pizza night...

Ok, so I didn't get the chance to make that stick of butter chicken recipe last night... Ended up running errands and then getting a pizza!

I'm thinking I might get that chicken dish in the oven tonight and have leftovers for tomorrow's lunch?? 

Also, in my last post I mentioned that I made a Honey Chicken meal in the crock pot... Well, the recipe is actually different than the one I posted earlier this year. I actually think I liked this recipe better -- the only extra ingredient was corn starch & sesame seed (which we didn't have)...

Slow Cooker Honey Sesame Chicken
Recipe adapted from: Baby Center

Ingredients:
4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts (thighs would be fine too)
Salt and pepper
1 cup honey
1/2 cup soy sauce
1/2 cup diced onion
1/4 cup ketchup
2 tablespoons vegetable oil (could also use olive oil or canola oil -- I used olive oil)
2 cloves garlic, minced
1/4 teaspoon red pepper flakes (optional - I didn't use because I'm a whimp)
4 teaspoons cornstarch dissolved in 6 Tablespoons water
Sesame seeds (didn't have them, so didn't use them)

Directions:
Season both sides of chicken with lightly with salt and pepper, put into crock pot. In a small bowl, combine honey, soy sauce, onion, ketchup, oil, garlic and pepper flakes. Pour over chicken. Cook on low for 3-4 hours or on high 1 1/2 – 2 1/2 hours, or just until chicken is cooked through. Remove chicken from crock pot, leave sauce. Dissolve 4 teaspoons of cornstarch in 6 tablespoons of water and pour into crock pot. Stir to combine with sauce. Replace lid and cook sauce on high for ten more minutes or until slightly thickened. Cut chicken into bite size pieces, then return to pot and toss with sauce before serving. Sprinkle with sesame seeds and serve over rice or noodles.


More information on recipe... 
http://www.sixsistersstuff.com/2012/01/slow-cooker-honey-sesame-chicken-recipe.html
 

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Getting easier

Soooo, it's been a couple of weeks since I've had the chance to blog...

Even though it has not become any more enjoyable, cooking is getting a little easier. 

I'm not even sure what I have been cooking, but I know that it's beeng happening!! 

Really getting in the grilling since the nice weather won't be with us for long! 

I have repeated some of the recipes I've posted in previous posts (ex. pesto chicken, asian honey chicken). And honestly, I've just thrown some things together to make a meal. 

Tonights dinner should be interesting... I'm thinking of making a recipe that I saw on pinterst MINUS the full stick of butter. Maybe to substitute I can use olive oil or half a stick of butter?? It looks easy and quick so I'm going to give it a try!! I will also NOT be using a whole package of the italian seasoning -- always way too much salt for my taste!!!





INGREDIENTS & DIRECTIONS: 4-6 raw chicken breasts, new potatoes, green beans (fresh or canned-really any green veggie would work. Broccoli is good, too). Arrange in 9x13 dish. Sprinkle with a packet of Italian dressing mix and then top with a melted stick of butter. Cover with foil and bake at 350 degrees for 1 hour. 

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1st week of school

We have had a very hectic and let's face it, stressful past couple of weeks!!

Been so busy that I even forgot that I had a blog.

A started "school" on Monday and so far it's been just OK. Very rough on both of us I think.

While I was pregnant I started searching for a child care center. Went to a few centers to try and get something set up for when I returned to work. During the last month of pregnancy, or maybe even while I was on maternity leave, J's mother and step mother decided that they wanted to watch A while we worked. We were so grateful that A could stay at home, and be watched by his grandmothers. Over the year, A was able to get 1:1 attention, be home (and healthy), and have fun with his grandmothers.  

Boy, how time flies though... As the year came to an end, I attempted to find a home care for A, but had little success. Unfortunately since I do not know many people in our area, I wasn't able to get many personal referrals for a home day care. I just can't trust sending my child to someone's home and feel comfortable doing so. Although a home center would be my preference, my gut instinct just tells me that unless I have a personal referral, I just can't do it. We are on a waiting list for a home care center and hopefully there will be room for A soon, if not, we have a center that we found which so far, I'm very happy with!!

A had a rough first couple of days. I took some time off of work in the afternoon to pick him up a little early from "school." The two times I went to get him he was playing outside with the other kids. So sad to see him just standing there watching the other kids play. There was a sadness in his eyes that just broke my heart. He cried when the teacher took a step, or if another child ran past him too fast. He was relieved when he saw me and immediately ran over to me (falling several times because the ground has the ground up tires and is difficult for him to walk in). 

Thankful that his lead teacher has 16 years at the center. She seems to be so kind and nice. She even has sent me some pictures and even videos of A. She lets me call as much as I need to. 

On the positive side of starting "school." A is eating lots of new foods, much more foods than I experiment with at home. For the most part they practice very health eating! One morning I walked in and they were making home made fruit bars -- the delicious baked good smell hit you as soon as you opened the front door!! He eats balanced lunches, or at least he is offered a balance lunch! He is learning how to use utensils while eating which I think is pretty cool. Of course playing with the other kids is also good for him. (Although he has a constant runny nose the past 3 days - which I can't tell if it's a cold or if it's from the constant crying).

Today was stuffed animal day so A brought in one of his toys to play with. Can't wait to see how that works out!

It has been just a hectic and crazy past couple of weeks and I just can't wait to hang out with my baby this weekend with no real plans -- except music class on Saturday!!